It usually starts out with a question.
Why you so weird?
You did you wear that?
Noone does that anymore, you know?
Why are you so selfish?
The problem with this questions is, they are to shove you in the dark corner, while you dig harder to find what is wrong with you.
On this stand you have two options presented to you to either act the victim or be the victim when you accept that offer, then you relegate your self-dignity power. No, you have the right not to hand out 'acting the victim' pass.
Know when someone tries to beat another down with words, it is to make one person in the mix to feel better and it isn't the one listening to the words being said. If you are at the receiving end, no how much you admire the person speaking, know you have the absolute right to act in the best interest of your heart and soul and protect it. If it is a recurring event or something from the past, make it a mission to overcome the sinking feeling to keep you in the dirt. Words are perhaps man's most powerful weapon and gift, with the enormous ability to build or mar. You have to decide which you will allow.
Know you have the absolute to let go of anything that isn't building you.
To project the best of you in the world with been blinded or made bias by life's junk or opinions that is made out to make you less of the amazing person that you are.
To play the victim is a waste of who you are and what you can be. There is nowhere in the world that the end result is for good, so do yourself a favor, burn the passes.
You don't need them.
Let no one despise you, period because you were created a masterpiece.