1 Simple Rule to HAPPINESS that Last 30 days and beyond.

happy.png

I had spent more time in the bed than my body needed. I wasn’t sick at least not body wish the only question of my existence and what purpose with no definitive answer that seems life moving or impactful had me crippled.
You should know, my morning entailed flipping through the virtual world and morning after morning, the world seemed to be reaching perfection without my contributions. Did it mean, the essence of being alive did not need me? What happened to all the talks that “you are for a purpose” or “someone needed to hear what you have to offer”. Perhaps that is meant for a few, the few that seemed to have it all figured out and know exactly what they wanted and how to get it.
Dragging my hurting body off the bed, I moved to the chair close by, shut my eyes a bit and the tears came rolling down. I wasn’t sad or anything close either, I was just frustrated at this point. The harder I tried, the harder becomes.
And dreams seemed to remain just that.
So I asked myself one question before I review that question, here are the only way it can be effective for you if you undergo the same exercise.

•    You have to be way past being impressed by what you see around you
•    You have to be in search of what is real and not wary of façade
•    You have to be in a place in your mind where you thoughts are measured long-term
•    You have to understand that left alone, all by yourself- that is all you need in that moment and in the years to come
•    More importantly, you have to trust your gut and know what comes to you is what you need.

If you are in the rut, the best possible position for you to start from and FYI welcome to the place where every great person ever to exist started from. This is like trying to cook the fish you caught if you don’t clean out the scale you are not going to enjoy your meal.
So clean the scale and the guts, wash it until the mind crystal clear.
So what is the rule to happiness that lasts beyond a few minute high? YOU.
That sounds ridiculous but think for a minute, everything that caused or causing your pain and frustration is outside of you. Trace the root and you will discover if it wasn’t comparing you to what everyone else seems to be accomplished, the frustration is what should have been. The baseline you do not measure up, in your eye, with the perceived standard. And the standard is influenced by thumb outside of you.

To be truly happy, you have to reevaluate yourself by the goals you have laid out for yourself, measure by the efforts you are applying to achieving them.
Here that happiness that lasts, are those that you create for yourself influenced by nothing.
That is why when you base some as core as your happiness on anything or anyone other than yourself you have yourself set you for disappointment. No, not because the world is against you, but because everything one is doing what they feel is best for them. And when self is in the equation, you can guess you have the needed advantage.
Your happiness is yours to create
Your happiness is your to recognize
Your happiness is yours to embrace

So there is no secret to happiness, and what am about to say might be nothing you have never heard, you may only need to put to practice the rule of doing, based on your deduction, the things that will make you happy base on the only thing you have control over, YOU. 
YOU are the only rule, by your decision to make you happy for a lifetime.

1 Simple Rule to Happiness that Last 30 days and beyond.

I had spent more time in the bed than my body needed. I wasn’t sick at least not body wish the only question of my existence and what purpose with no definitive answer that seems life moving or impactful had me crippled.
You should know, my morning entailed flipping through the virtual world and morning after morning, the world seemed to be reaching perfection without my contributions. Did it mean, the essence of being alive did not need me? What happened to all the talks that “you are for a purpose” or “someone needed to hear what you have to offer”. Perhaps that is meant for a few, the few that seemed to have it all figured out and know exactly what they wanted and how to get it.
Dragging my hurting body off the bed, I moved to the chair close by, shut my eyes a bit and the tears came rolling down. I wasn’t sad or anything close either, I was just frustrated at this point. The harder I tried, the harder becomes.
And dreams seemed to remain just that.
So I asked myself one question before I review that question, here are the only way it can be effective for you if you undergo the same exercise.
•    You have to be way past being impressed by what you see around you
•    You have to be in search of what is real and not wary of façade
•    You have to be in a place in your mind where you thoughts are measured long-term
•    You have to understand that left alone, all by yourself- that is all you need in that moment and in the years to come
•    More importantly, you have to trust your gut and know what comes to you is what you need.

art.jpg


If you are in the rut, the best possible position for you to start from and FYI welcome to the place where every great person ever to exist started from. This is like trying to cook the fish you caught if you don’t clean out the scale you are not going to enjoy your meal.
So clean the scale and the guts, wash it until the mind crystal clear.
 So what is the rule to happiness that lasts beyond a few minute high? YOU.
That sounds ridiculous but think for a minute, everything that caused or causing your pain and frustration is outside of you. Trace the root and you will discover if it wasn’t comparing you to what everyone else seems to be accomplished, the frustration is what should have been. The baseline you do not measure up, in your eye, with the perceived standard. And the standard is influenced by thumb outside of you.
To be truly happy, you have to reevaluate yourself by the goals you have laid out for yourself, measure by the efforts you are applying to achieving them.
Here that happiness that lasts, are those that you create for yourself influenced by nothing.
That is why when you base some as core as your happiness on anything or anyone other than yourself you have yourself set you for disappointment. No, not because the world is against you, but because everything one is doing what they feel is best for them. And when self is in the equation, you can guess you have the needed advantage.
Your happiness is yours to create
Your happiness is your to recognize
Your happiness is yours to embrace

So there is no secret to happiness, and what am about to say might be nothing you have never heard, you may only need to put to practice the rule of doing, based on your deduction the things that will make you happy base on the only thing you have control over, YOU.
YOU are the only rule, by your decision to make you happy for a lifetime. Just as you wish to offer the world so much, you have much to offer yourself.